FRIENDS

People say friends come and go but the truth is true friends don't come and go, they stay and build you up. This LIFE, I've met a lot of people, learnt from those people and experienced so many impacts and they've all taught me a lesson one way or the other. Whether they were bad friends or good friends. You have to give people a chance to show you who they really are before you conclude things with them. Human beings grow and during that growth, they go through so many things and encounter so many things but it is left for them to choose what path they want to follow and what experience they want an impact from. For me, I think making friends is the hardest decision for me than choosing shoes...lol*...Well I feel one day if obstacles come in life and you no longer have the closeness that used to be there, then everything becomes ruined; you can't have that same relationship that was there before and things get awkward from there. I get scared of loosing my true friends. I'm not the type to easily accommodate people into my life because I love a private life more than anything and I hate discomfort in my life so I hardly associate with people so I won't have to stress about people's businesses but when I let people into my life, I try hard to keep the relationship because I see it as a precious one to be able to have someone I can call a friend and it scares me to loose such relationship because I end up regretting why I let them in initially. But when things are not working out between us, I don't stress it or force it because it could be God's plan.

And also in this life of friendship, I can say that prayer helps a lot!!! I can say proudly that there's no friend I have now that I'm not happy to have. I don't make new decisions in my life without involving God of course, even the smallest decisions. And I'm happy with the people he has brought into my life and the people he has taken out. I tell myself all the time that every person God brings to you has a role they're playing in your life that they don't even know of. It might be to teach you a particular lesson or to show you that you are deviating from your goal and they're always there to perform their role and if they have no relevance any more, he takes them out of your life. That's why you see that some people aren't with you anymore, it's probably because they've served their role. Life is all about wisdom..you have to see things as a wise man unless you end up as a waste with no life gain.